The scripture in Amos says, “No two walk together unless they agree.” So, for a relationship to work, both people need to be on the same page and put in the effort. If you’re looking for the right partner or people, make sure they match your energy and excitement. It’s not about lowering your standards… it’s about finding someone who’s as committed as you are. When both people are putting in the same level of effort, the relationship will feel fair and balanced.

This goes for ALL relationships, not just romantic ones. Whether it’s family or friends, mutual effort and respect are crucial. If you’re always the one reaching out or making plans without much response, it can feel one-sided. Don’t over-invest in relationships where effort isn’t mutual. Look for connections where both parties are willing to put in the same level of energy and time. That’s how you build healthy, fulfilling relationships.

I’ve learned this lesson firsthand, matching energy in relationships has made all the difference. When you find someone who’s as all-in as you are, it’s like you’re both speaking the same language. It’s a beautiful, balanced dance that just feels right.